Introduction: Fear in Childhood Is Common & Treatable
Many children, even those who seem brave or tough, carry secret fears. Some might fear the dark, monsters, loud noises, or being alone. Others may feel anxious after traumatic experiences or just from everyday stress.
Parents often worry when their child seems overly sensitive, withdrawn, or afraid. Thankfully, homeopathy offers gentle and natural support. It helps children feel stronger, calmer and less afraid; without harsh treatments.
Every Child Has Fears; Even the Strong Ones
Even the bravest child can be afraid of something. One tough 29 year Police officer, who never backed down in his touch and dangerous duties, admitted only after several interviews that he had been scared of pins and injections all his life. This shows that fear doesn’t always look the same in every child.
Where Do Fears Come From?
Fear in children can appear after events like:
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Death of a parent or loved one
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Separation or divorce
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Physical or emotional abuse
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Violence at home
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Being bitten or attacked by an animal
But fears can also grow slowly from things like:
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Seeing parents fight
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Watching scary TV, movies, or video games
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Experiencing bullying or isolation
Even subtle stress over time can create deep fear or anxiety.
What Children Fear at Different Ages
Experts say different fears are common at different ages:
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Birth to 6 months – Loud sounds, falling, or feeling unsupported
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1 to 2 years – Fear of being separated from parents
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2 years – Fear of imaginary monsters, strangers, or burglars
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3 years – Fear of animals, the dark, or being alone
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4 years – Loud noises like sirens, wild animals, and bedtime separation
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5 years – More realistic fears: injury, falling, or dogs
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6 years – Ghosts, witches, disasters, or “something under the bed”
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7 to 10 years – Fear of failure, rejection, death, or medical procedures
One study showed that children aged 3 to 7 usually have 3 fears or phobias, while 60% of those aged 8 to 11 can have upto 7 phobias and fears.
Each Child Is Unique; So Is the Right Remedy
Homeopathy doesn’t just treat the fear itself; it looks at the totality of whole child, including their behaviour, nature and specific symptoms. That is the reason two children with fear of the dark may be getting different homeopathic remedies.
When children describe their nightmares or daytime worries, they often share feelings even their parents didn’t know about. These insights help a specialist homeopathic doctor choose the most fitting remedy.
Top Homeopathic Remedies for Childhood Fears
Below are some best but gentle homeopathic medicines that help children with deep fears:
Stramonium
Helpful for children with intense fear of darkness, monsters, or being alone. These children may have nightmares, scream at night, and fear being abandoned. Stramonium brings calm and security to very frightened children.
Phosphorus
Used for children who are sensitive, affectionate, and easily scared — especially by thunderstorms, loud noises, or when left alone. These children might seek company constantly and become fearful at night.
Aconite
Ideal for sudden fears after a shock or fright, such as a scary experience or accident. The child may wake in panic, sweat, or become restless.
Pulsatilla
For gentle, clingy children who fear being alone or left in the dark. They often cry easily and want comfort.
Calcarea Carbonica
Good for children who are slow to develop but easily overwhelmed, with fears of the dark, heights, and insects.
These remedies help remove fear naturally; without side effects or trauma.
Fear Can Continue into Adulthood
Some fears never fully go away without help. One boy with ADHD told us that he had feared the dark so badly since childhood that he used to run between light switches. He struggled with thoughts of evil spirits in a dark room. Though he tried to cope, the pain and anxiety were still real. Homeopathy helped reduce the intensity of his fear and helped him feel safe again.
Homeopathy Offers Relief; Without Harshness
Children don’t need to carry fear with them for life. With the right homeopathic support, they can sleep better, feel braver and enjoy childhood without fear holding them back.
About the Author: Dr. Hussain Kaisrani
Dr. Hussain Kaisrani is a leading homeopathic consultant based in Lahore Pakistan, specialising in mental, emotional and behavioural health including ADHD and Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD). With years of experience helping children and adults, Dr. Kaisrani uses classical homeopathy to treat anxiety, fear, phobias, depression, Panic attack Disorder and complex emotional issues.
